Monday, February 8, 2010

Define Friends????????

Reading Isabel's post on defining friends got me remembering my own speech.It was around five seconds but I still remember the starting line, "What is friends? Is it someone that we borrow homework from to copy? Is it someone who is always there for you?". So what is the definition of friends? Is it merely someone who shares your jokes? Or does it go deeper than that? Do we have a connection, a bond, that absolute feeling that you can trust that certain someone to your death? Or are we all just friends with benefits? In life we meet many different kinds of people. Kind ones, selfish ones, cruel despicable ones, timid ones, brave ones, there are just so many types of personalities out there. How do we know which one would be our perfect match? Which is the one that can share our ups and downs?

Sometimes I too wonder if I can trust the certain people which I hang out with. Its hard to judge a book by it cover. You would never know what they are thinking inside. I guess only in certain circumstances that we can know who we ought to hold true to our hearts.

Penang-Kuala Lumpur

Standard 6
We're moving to KL..
NO!!!!!!!!!

Form Four
Thank god we moved to KL

Perhaps I was immature back then but moving to KL then was flat-out a big NO for me. But looking back now its really great that we moved down. I had a whole new slate to begin in Form One no one knew me that was one of the best and worse part of it. I could have lied bout who I was but somehow I didnt(arent I nice?) If my primary school friends were to see me in school now I think they'll be shocked. I was always the introvert, the quiet ass in class. Now....I think Dee Hva's words in Moral sums it all up "cakap terlalu banyak"

What else? Now I'm joining debate, duet acting doing stuff I'd never have the guts to do if I hadnt move down to KL. Coming to KL made me more extroverted. Made me experience a wide variety of personalities. Made me more of an all-rounder. Made me dirty-minded. Made me curse though not frequently( I dont curse like a military man). Made me more independent. I can go on with the 'made me's all day long but in short KL has really done a lot to me. I will always be a anak Penang at heart but KL molded my personality.